an.8.4 Aṅguttara Nikāya (Numbered Discourses)
    
        
        
            
                
                Pleasing (2)
                
                
“Bhikkhus, possessing eight qualities, a bhikkhu is displeasing and disagreeable to his fellow monks and is neither respected nor esteemed by them. What eight? Here, a bhikkhu is (1) desirous of gains, (2) honor, and (3) reputation; (4) he does not know the proper time and (5) does not know moderation; (6) he is impure; (7) he speaks much; and (8) he insults and reviles his fellow monks. Possessing these eight qualities, a bhikkhu is displeasing and disagreeable to his fellow monks and is neither respected nor esteemed by them.
“Bhikkhus, possessing eight qualities, a bhikkhu is pleasing and agreeable to his fellow monks and is respected and esteemed by them. What eight? Here, a bhikkhu is (1) not desirous of gains, (2) honor, and (3) reputation; (4) he is one who knows the proper time and (5) who knows moderation; (6) he is pure; (7) he does not speak much; and (8) he does not insult and revile his fellow monks. Possessing these eight qualities, a bhikkhu is pleasing and agreeable to his fellow monks and is respected and esteemed by them.”
                
                - Translator: Bhikkhu Bodhi
                
                
                - Editor: Blake Walsh
                
                
            
         
        
        
        
            
Disliked (2nd) 
            
                
            
                
            
                
            
                
                    “Mendicants, a mendicant with eight qualities is disliked and disapproved by their spiritual companions, not respected or admired. 
                
            
                
                    What eight? 
                
            
                
                    It’s when a mendicant desires material possessions, honor, and to be looked up to. They know neither moderation nor the proper time. Their conduct is impure, they talk a lot, and they insult and abuse their spiritual companions. 
                
            
                
                    A mendicant with these eight qualities is disliked and disapproved by their spiritual companions, not respected or admired. 
                
            
                
                    A mendicant with eight qualities is liked and approved by their spiritual companions, and respected and admired. 
                
            
                
                    What eight? 
                
            
                
                    It’s when a mendicant doesn’t desire material possessions, honor, and to be looked up to. They know moderation and the proper time. Their conduct is pure, they don’t talk a lot, and they don’t insult and abuse their spiritual companions. 
                
            
                
                    A mendicant with these eight qualities is liked and approved by their spiritual companions, and respected and admired.”