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ud.2.7 Udana

The Discourse about the Only Son

Thus I heard: At one time the Gracious One was dwelling near Sāvatthī, in Jeta’s Wood, at Anāthapiṇḍika’s monastery. Then at that time a certain lay follower’s only son, who was beloved and dear, had died. Then many lay followers, with wet clothes and hair, in the middle of the day went to the Gracious One, and after going and worshipping the Gracious One, they sat down on one side. While sat on one side the Gracious One said this to those lay followers:

“Now why are you lay followers, with wet clothes and hair, coming here in the middle of the day?”

When that was said, that lay follower said this to the Gracious One: “My only son, who was beloved and dear, reverend Sir, has died. That is why we, with wet clothes and hair, are coming here in the middle of the day.”

Then the Gracious One, having understood the significance of it, on that occasion uttered this exalted utterance:

“Hosts of devas and many men are tied by the satisfaction in forms that are loved,
Miserable and worn out, they come under the power of the King of Death.

“For sure those who are heedful day and night, give up forms that are loved—
They surely dig up the root of misery which is Death’s bait,
so difficult to transcend.”

- Translator: Bhikkhu Ānandajoti

- Editor: Bhikkhu Sujato


An Only Son

So I have heard.
At one time the Buddha was staying near Sāvatthī in Jeta’s Grove, Anāthapiṇḍika’s monastery.
Now at that time a certain lay follower’s dear and beloved only child passed away.
Then in the middle of the day several lay followers with wet clothes and hair went up to the Buddha, bowed, and sat down to one side. The Buddha said to them:
“Why, lay followers, have you come here in the middle of the day with wet clothes and hair?”
The lay follower replied,
“Sir, my dear and beloved only child has passed away.
That’s why we came here in the middle of the day with wet clothes and hair.”
Then, understanding this matter, on that occasion the Buddha expressed this heartfelt sentiment:
“Hosts of gods and most human beings are bound
to what seems dear and pleasant.
Miserable and exhausted,
they fall under the sway of the King of Death.
The diligent, who day and night
leave behind what seems pleasant,
dig out the root of misery—
Death’s bait so hard to escape.”